Day 3 of the TRC brought a combination of the personal and the political, highlighting how any social change cannot exist apart of the relational fabric of a society.
To start the day I attended a survivor's sharing circle. Individuals who endured and suffered in the residential school system were given space to share their stories and have them included as part of the official TRC archives. Person after person recounted experiences of brokenness and abuse, leading to years of struggle in family and society. The absence of love and care and respect led to deep hurt and shame as they were kids, which then persisted in their adult lives in various destructive ways, be it addiction or a general hatred of self and others. Upon receiving physical abuse, one woman recounted how "you don't cry; you do what your told." Another women shared of being paraded through the residence as a kid wearing "pissy sheets" over their heads as punishment for wetting the bed - a humiliation she'll never forget. Yet in the midst of the deep pain, these survivors demonstrate great courage in offering forgiveness to their abusers. Kitty, for example, after sharing about how she was taken from her home without her parents knowledge, stated poignantly, "Forgiving people brings healing." Today, the TRC was personal.
Overall, it was a full and challenging and inspiring day. And while the political side can seem overwhelming, the personal stories remind me that society is made up of people - the personal stories of each one of us. Reconciliation is more than an issue, it's a relationship, one that goes from institutions to the very people we interact with on a daily basis. Politics needs the personal, and the personal needs politics to ensure equality is protected and promoted. The TRC has shown me how in society as a whole, we go from the personal to the political and back again.